FAQ's

• An intervention is a planned meeting where family members and/or friends get together to discuss a concern in a loving, caring manner. The meeting is a structured, solution-focused process consisting of a small group of close friends, family members or co-workers who come together in a caring and non-judgmental manner. Each participant in the intervention takes a turn expressing their concerns and how they see the problem affecting them. Participants are given the opportunity to present their observations and help them see how their behavior is affecting both them and the people around them. The goal of an intervention is to come to a positive solution for all parties. An intervention can be between two people or a group of people.

Why would someone need an intervention?

• When most people think of an intervention they think of a knock-down-drag-out fight where people are wrestled to the ground and taken off to treatment. While those types of interventions are needed in certain circumstances, we specialize in a different type of intervention. We work with individuals who are in need of reconnecting with their loved ones because of a variety of family estrangements and families who are going through difficult periods needing professional help. Issues we have dealt with include: Making Amends, Divorces, In-Law issues, Interracial marriages, Religion, Family businesses, Gay coming out issues, Inheritance differences, Aging parents, Death, Resentments, and Terminal diagnosis.

Who can attend an intervention?

• Anyone who is involved in the situation. An intervention can take place between 2 people or a group of people.

What can I expect at an intervention?

• An intervention can be a very loving interaction. There can also be a great deal of crying, denial, fighting and arguing. Interventions can be highly emotional. Having a professional to guide the process eases the emotional burden from you so that you can stay focused on the intervention.

What happens after the intervention?

• After the intervention we will discuss how the intervention was successful and develop a plan to keep you in your positive solutions. If the intervention was not successful we will discuss how to cope with the outcome. We are also available for follow up phone sessions to all parties in the intervention.

Can I have phone consultations before or after the intervention?

• Yes, we offer phone consultations both before and after the intervention.

Are the results guaranteed?

• We can't guarantee that your loved one will see the situation any differently than before the intervention, but we will do everything we can to bring a positive outcome to your intervention. Providing a soft, kind intervention guided by a professional is more likely to give you a positive outcome.

Where is the intervention held?

• We are willing to come to a location near you. You and your family could choose a location or you could come to us. Together we will pick a neutral location for all parties involved. The location will be selected ahead of time before the intervention.

How long will the intervention last?

• Each case is different. Some interventions last 2 hours and some may last a full day. We do our best to bring about positive solutions in the shortest amount of time.

What if my loved one doesn't show up for the intervention?

• If your loved one decides not to show up for the intervention the time will then be spent on helping you to cope with the situation and how you can move on in positive solution in your own life.

What if I don't need a full intervention?

• If you feel as though you don't need a full intervention, but would like someone to help you mediate a conversation we can help you with that too. Maybe you want to tell someone something and feel scared to bring up the topic. Maybe you need help talking about a sensitive topic. Whatever it is we can help you.

How does the family meeting or intervention process begin?

• A family member will contact us for information which may lead to an agreement to proceed with the meeting. A contract is agreed upon and the dates for the meeting are set.
  
  All family members involved in the family intervention/meeting are sent a letter from us outlining the goals, format and schedule of the meeting.
  
  The meeting will take place over 2-4 hours or longer if needed.
  
  After the intervention/meeting we are available to all family members for consultation at our hourly rate.

Who would benefit from a family meeting?

• Most families are not in immediate crisis, but do have a desire to come together to address their relationship and feelings as they have evolved over the years. Some families have experienced a death, loss, significant change and are in need of support and collaboration to move forward. Other families have experienced distresses over the years with lingering, unresolved feelings of anger, hurt or resentment. Our intention is to come together in conversations with the assistance of family facilitators so that family members and the family as a group may learn, grow, and move forward with strength, hope and encouragement with new possibilities.

Can you help me over the phone?

• Yes, we can help you to communicate with your family via telephone.

What if only I want help?

• Sometimes families just can't mend an estrangement leaving you feeling alone and full of grief. We can help you to move on in positive solution via telephone sessions.